“As I watched and listened, I thought, Why can’t the PW see that statistics aren’t reaching this woman? Those facts and figures don’t seem to be affecting her actual life. Even though they might be true, this woman isn’t seeing the benefit of the work being done. The PW just isn’t hearing the NEED. She’s too focused on her response that she’s not hearing the woman.”
This is so true in this particular post that I happened upon by chance, but also in todays political and social everyday life. Everyone is so intent on putting across their own view, in justifying a decision, in arguing that their way is the correct and only way, that they do not listen. They are too intent on formulating a clever response, using buzzwords that mean absolutely nothing and, in so many cases, trying to belittle, embarrass, or bully.
Please read, and enjoy, this post by Tammy Davis.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again–mostly because it is a lesson I have to keep learning myself. Perception is reality. A couple weeks ago I attended an event that included a panel discussion with people presenting differing viewpoints. One woman came from an under-served neighborhood and felt abandoned by the city. She […]
So true!
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As I always say: Statistics are like a bikini! Or actually, perhaps more like a horoscope – unless they mean something to me directly I tend to glaze over at meaningless words and numbers.
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Definitely worth reading. It’s hard to remember to listen, and it’s especially difficult when you believe the other person hasn’t listened to you.
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Very true!
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So true. I’ve been on both sides of this. It takes such effort to remember our lessons sometimes. I’m glad for the reminders.
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Thanks so much for putting those wise words in front of us. I’ve just subscribed to her blog. More reading – *sigh*
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Thank you for sharing this with us, Peter! 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
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It’s so true, Peter. 🙂
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I was glad you sent us over to her post. She really nailed the difference between an empathic and a statistical response to a remark.
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Thank you Peter. 🙂
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Thanks for sharing this Peter. Very thoughtful piece.
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